“It wasn’t my fault!” — Sound familiar?

Meet the B.L.A.M.E. Framework™️: A tool to help you decode your child’s deflection (without losing your cool).

This quick-read guide helps you understand what’s really going on when your kid refuses to take responsibility — and how to respond with connection instead of chaos.

Blame isn’t always bad behavior.

Sometimes it’s a nervous system strategy. Other times, it’s your child trying (and failing) to avoid shame, punishment, or feeling like the bad guy. This short, eye-opening framework breaks down five hidden patterns behind blame — and gives you insight into what your child might be trying to tell you (without actually telling you).

Inside this free framework, you’ll find:

  • The 5 parts of B.L.A.M.E. and what each one can reveal about your child’s behavior

  • Insight into why blame is often a protector in disguise

  • A way to shift from power struggle to powerful connection — without rescuing or reprimanding

Spoiler: You don’t need to “make them take accountability” to create secure accountability.

(But you can stay grounded, curious, and connected — even when they’re throwing blame like confetti.)